Because is not an answer.

so there are some people that find every excuse in the book. these people need to be more considerate to the people they are leaving behind because of these excuses. It seems I have fallen victim to this time and time again. this time more than others. in the beginning you brush it off don't think much of it, but when it becomes a reoccuring senario you begin to wonder what you have done wrong. It is not always necessarily something you have done wrong though. the optomisstic look at it is that its not you its them. thats being hopeful, but it is sometimes true depending on the case. how can you tell this person how you are feeling when you don't even see them face to face? there does not seem to be an easy solution. I guess the best way to confront it is to just lay it out on the table for both you and the other to see. give all the facts and be brutally honest. It may not land you where you hoped to be, but at least it has been thrown out there in the open. what else is there to do? Toodles!!