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what if... it is a big question that lingers in our minds every once in a while when something happens. what if I did this differently or what if I had gone here first and then there. there are so many times in my life where I have questioned the situations I'm in. the truth asking the question "what if?" is not going to change what has come to pass. what if is not a controller of life... you can't let it do that because you will be second guessing every single move you make. even when it may be the worst situation that you've been in you need to take a step back, breath and let the pieces fall where they may. be an optomist... I know that is a hard task to take on for some of us when the whole world seems to be going against us, but you need to at least try be positive. you never know some good could come out of every situation. take life one step at a time. there will be a time to question things and why they happened but you can't wonder "what if?" it won't make anything easier. in my experience i need to make the same mistake a few times before I finally get what I'm suppose to be doing. take the curve balls and throw them back. make it work to your advantage. In the end whatever you do is up to you. your actions can change the minutes of your life in one split second. make that second count. use your brain and stay alert. there are too many variables to question it. now all I need to do is take my words of wisdom and put them into practice... its not going to be easy. so long, farewell...